Resentment: An Unseen Burden

Hello wondrous Souls,

There’s a hidden weight we sometimes carry—a silent weight that tugs at the nervous system, keeping it looped in vigilance, even when there’s no danger in sight. This weight is resentment. Often subtle, it disguises itself as justified anger, disappointment, or moral righteousness. But beneath that, it is a survival response… a signal to our body that something still isn’t safe.

Resentment traps the body in a low hum of stress. It keeps your system on high alert, whispering to your cells that you’re not yet out of the storm. You might be smiling on the outside, tending to your day, even appearing to have let go—but deep within, your nervous system is still scanning for threat, still remembering the sting, still reliving the moment.

And here’s the truth: holding on to resentment doesn’t protect us. It binds us.

I have learned that true freedom doesn’t come from changing others or wishing for a better past—it comes when we choose to release the weight. Forgiveness, in this light, isn’t about condoning what happened. It’s about choosing peace for your own body, mind, and soul. When you let go, you’re not setting them free — you’re setting yourself free.

The body knows. It will often whisper before it screams. A tightness in the chest, a knot in the stomach, a jaw that clenches when no one’s looking. These are the sacred cues of your physical temple, inviting you into awareness.

So I ask you, gently:
What is one heavy feeling your body is asking you to release?

Share it below, if you feel called. You never know who your healing might help. Sometimes our most vulnerable release becomes someone else’s lifeline. And together, as we let go, we rise lighter — luminous, unburdened, and free.

With love,
Elizabeth

Forgiveness: The Freedom of Letting Go

Have you ever found yourself replaying past hurts over and over in your mind? Wishing things could have turned out differently, obsessing about what went wrong and running the old blame and shame repertoire? We’ve all been there – trapped in a cycle of wanting to erase a painful episode in our life story.

But true forgiveness means breaking free from that cycle. It’s about releasing our tight grip on how we wish the past could have unfolded, and making peace with what actually happened.

I’m not saying we should downplay or excuse mistreatment from others. Real forgiveness doesn’t mean dismissing the wrong done to us. Rather, it’s about liberating ourselves from carrying resentment, anger and bitterness as heavy burdens. Those loads weigh us down far more than whatever pain someone else caused initially.

When we replay the mental video loop of how we were wronged, we remain trapped with the hurt and negativity. But forgiveness opens the door and allows us to walk free into a mind space of renewal and possibility.

Truly forgiving means looking ahead instead of remaining stuck picking at the scabs of past wounds. It’s about accepting what happened, acknowledge the learning (without resentment) and embrace the present with a wise and loving heart, unencumbered by old grievances holding us back.

Of course, letting go is often easier said than done. Forgiving and letting go takes practice. Old emotional habits die hard because they often have become an emotional addiction. But simply being aware of the need to release our obsession with holding on to the unchangeable past is a powerful first step.

Little by little, we can train our minds to open, accept, heal and forgive. And there’s a beautiful lightness and freedom awaiting us when we finally let go.
Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

Attuning To The Design Of Creation

This month at – 

Unite Your Light WOMEN 2015 – August 30th

presents

Quest Speaker – Souzi D. Wilson THE PERFORMER

Singer/SongWriter

Social Synergy Focus 8: Attuning To The Design Of Creation

Attribute Loving

As we gain access to our collective wisdom, discover our shared destiny and experience group synergy, a new form of governance emerges: self-governance. Attuning to the design of creation, we allow for decisions and right action to be revealed. Led by the self-organizing laws of nature, we observe, “What wants to happen”.

We naturally desire to make optimum choices, which honor our interconnectedness with all life. We evolve beyond parliamentary procedure, as well as consensus decision-making, into synergistic cooperative democracy and whole-systems knowing.

Revelation joins with thinking to support us in governing ourselves as one living system. True self-governance emerges as we stabilize as our Radiant Self and listen to the guidance from within and speaking our truth in unity with others.

Book your seat today – only 12 places available each month for these highly clarifying sessions.

BOOK ONLINE – https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/unite-your-light-women-2015-tickets-18029110555

CONTACT ME TODAY  elizabeth.ellames@ozemail.com.au

I am Enlightenment

0005Gu Today I move from ignorance to enlightenment and merge with my Radiant Self. I am Enlightenment, I am Enlightenment, I am Enlightenment.

How you get on purpose and add value?

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You have to name the problem or obstacle first before you can begin to create the solution. Mm… So, what do you see in the world that needs correcting. For me it’s that pesky mediocrity, which of coarse comes in many forms. Finding your purpose is all about the way you identify and clarify where you believe you can add value… this is what really counts. After you have taken the time to connect at this level it’s important to get really specific around how you are going to create this positive change in the world.

The challenge I see in the world is “Mediocrity” and the way I want to correct and transform it is by starting at the root cause, which is with the people. You see my quest is to create True Prosperity and Build Culture, while my persistent obstacle mediocrity. My commitment is to tend to both of the first concepts. The simple truth is they both live in the mind and heart of the person housing them. We either have a desire to prosper or a desire to remain the same and it’s my purpose in life to help people find their own prosperity and culture.

That’s what will change the world!! Generosity of spirit, a brightness of the future, feelings of blissfulness and the restoration of a complete life are what fuel purpose. While bad old run of the mill Mediocrity is fuelled by destructive habits, being misunderstood, a sense of unworthiness, simply not knowing and feeling excluded. So, how do you make that shift from one side to the other…? Do you go and get some chocolate or maybe some ice cream? Do you just go buy another car or dress or fragrance? Perhaps you need a trip to a far away exotic destination? Well I can tell you right now, all those things are really yummy and great fun, but sorry folks they wont get you to the other side; your true quest, your life’s purpose. You actually have to do the hard yards, which means the inner work. Yep, the hard-core personal development on yourself… that my Shining Ones is how you get there.

Heres a little Soul talk for you

“Expressing Our Souls Purpose.”
It is the destiny of each human being to awaken to their divine nature and to discover and express their unique calling. We discover our true place by following the wisdom of the heart and going within for guidance and direction. This month we move from the inner work of personal growth and alignment as the Self to our outer expression in the world. We express our talents and seek to join our gifts with those of appropriate partners to release the potential of each member of the groutp. Our barometer of success is the sense of joy and fulfillment in coming home to our selves.

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