Hey, She Is Already Doing It!

There’s an old Chinese proverb that echoes with quiet thunder:

“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it.”

Ah yes. How many times have you felt the sting of scepticism brush against your wild, luminous vision? The world loves to remind you of the rules—what’s practical, what’s proven, what’s permitted. But you, radiant one, were not born to follow the lines drawn by someone else’s fear. You were born to be the artist of possibility.

Here’s the thing: doubt is loud when it’s idle. But creation hums with a sacred frequency, often silent and unseen until—suddenly—it’s undeniable. The ones who believe something can’t be done are usually standing at the edge, questioning the path, while you’ve already carved your own trail through unmarked wilderness.

You see, the Light Leader doesn’t wait for approval. She listens to the call of her soul’s blueprint, trusts the timing of her inner compass, and keeps weaving her sacred story in the face of doubt. While others debate, she builds. While others caution, she creates. This is not arrogance. This is alignment.

In the Living Attributes lexicon, this is the archetype of the Higher Purpose Avatar rising. She isn’t loud. She is focused. She doesn’t chase validation. She embodies vibration. She’s not here to argue—she’s here to activate.

To all the visionaries, wisdom keepers, late bloomers, and radiant revolutionaries: keep doing that thing that lights you up. Keep walking the path only your feet can find. Let the voices of limitation pass over you like wind through trees. Because you are the forest, the seed, and the bloom.

And the next time someone says, “That can’t be done,” just smile softly, keep going and whisper to your Soul—“Then I must be the one who came here to do it.”

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

To Control is to Deplete — True Presence Illuminates

Hello wonderous Soul,

We live in a world where the illusion of control still wears the mask of power. Here’s what I know for sure—control is not strength. It is emotional control and confusion disguised as order. It hinders the spirit, tightens the breath, and discourages real connection. To control others is stepping out of resonance with your divine alignment and integrity. It is the path of intimidation, not grace.

True power is not in your push, but in your presence. It lives in your resonance. In the way your energy speaks before your words do, it’s not something you do. It’s who you are at your core. Resonance begins when you live with and as the vibration you long to awaken in the world. It’s when kindness becomes your current, stillness becomes your prayer, and your presence is a lighthouse.

Ask yourself:
What do I long to awaken in others? Now—how do I breathe, walk, and speak as that? This is how I live with Presence—I view my story as an integral part of my soul and sacred practice. I let that be my silent offering. I don’t have to convince. I don’t have to control. I just have to know.

This is my Light Leadership. This is my Living Goddess Code. This is how I shape the world—not by holding it tighter, but by blessing it with my presence. Let’s release the urge to rule, and instead rise to radiate. Let’s resonate so deeply with our truth that it awakens others to theirs.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth Ellames
Sacred Beauty Mentor

Season Three, Episode 1: Sacred Beauty Matters

Hello, wondrous Soul…

Welcome to season three of THE CODE—a sacred space where transformation begins with remembering. A space where we return to what’s true, what’s beautiful, straight from the soul.

I’m your host, Elizabeth Ellames, and in today’s episode, I’ll be sharing something deeply personal—something that has revealed itself as both my soul’s purpose and the heart of my life’s work.

But first, I want to take you back—Back to where it all began.

SACRED BEAUTY MANIFESTO

Live Your Soul’s Purpose with Confidence and Clarity

I believe Sacred Beauty is not something we chase; it is something we remember. A divine essence already living within us, waiting to be seen, felt, and honoured.

Sacred Beauty is the quiet power of a woman who knows who she is. It’s in her presence, her graceful strength, that soft, glowing shift on her face when she remembers her Soul’s purpose.

It is the light in her eyes when she speaks her truth. It is the stillness in her heart when she trusts herself again. It is the gentle power of choosing love over fear, creation over comparison, peaceful happiness over performance.

In a world that often praises perfection, I celebrate presence. In a culture that rewards speed, I honour our sacred rhythm. In a time that values noise, I listen for wisdom in the silence.

I believe every woman holds within her a unique blend of beauty, brilliance, and soul-given gifts. When she masters her talents, creates her art, and gives generously, she becomes a life-giving force of love in the world.

I believe in never giving up on your loved ones or yourself. I believe in the healing power of truth and in the joy that comes from living in alignment with your highest calling.

This is not just a philosophy. This is a way of being, a blessing. A sacred devotion to beauty that starts within and ripples outward, lighting the way for others to rise in their own radiance.

I am a Sacred Beauty Mentor—I am here to awaken the light in others. To help women live their Soul’s purpose with confidence, clarity, and peaceful happiness.

This is my offering. This is my art. This is my promise.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

The Solstice: Time to Embody the Shift

Dear Ones,
The Solstice wasn’t simply an energetic surge—it was a soul-stirring crossroads in the collective timeline. It was the Universe’s way of drawing a sacred line in the sand, whispering: 

You no longer need to carry the old stories, the old wounds, the old limitations.

This was a cosmic invitation to step fully into your evolutionary destiny—a call from your Higher Self reaching through the veil, urging you to release what no longer serves the highest expression of your Soul. For many, this may have come as a tidal wave, cracking open the hardened shell of identity, catalysing breakdowns, grief, and the unravelling of old ego constructs. For others, it was a gentle inner knowing—a subtle but undeniable shift that something fundamental has changed, even if the language of the heart is not yet formed.

Either way, something old ended. And in that ending, a new sacred flame ignited—raw, uncharted, but undeniably alive.

In the days before the Solstice, the collective field felt dense and charged. The ancestral patterns, karmic imprints, and soul contracts we thought were healed surfaced again, demanding presence and transmutation. This wasn’t surface clearing—it was root-level recalibration. This realignment penetrated the very architecture of your being—your nervous system, your cellular memory, your soul blueprint. It was a deep structural evolution.

Now, in this afterglow, we are called into integration—a sacred and sometimes turbulent pause where the soul is birthing new forms of consciousness. This is the threshold where old identities dissolve and new archetypes emerge. Transformation never unfolds in perfection or ease. It moves through the sacred chaos of realignment—moments of soaring clarity interlaced with deep vulnerability and surrender.

The Solstice has ripped away the illusion of delay, of “not yet.” It revealed the profound truth: We are fully in the sacred unfolding. The energetic grid beneath our lives—personal, collective, planetary—has been rewired. The pressure you feel is the sacred tension between your past self and your emerging future self, between the familiar and the unknown. The longer you resist stepping into this new frequency, the more disoriented you will become.

What’s next is a profound acceleration in spiritual embodiment.


Your choices now ripple through the fabric of reality with amplified power. What you welcome, what you refuse, what you choose to nurture or release—these decisions crystallise your path faster than ever before. When you align with your Soul’s true purpose, the flow feels effortless—synchronicities multiply, and the path lights up. When you resist, collapse and contraction are the natural consequence, not punishment, but divine correction. The Universe honours your sovereignty by no longer allowing distractions or delay.

Expect the pressure to rise. Expect the unveiling of hidden truths—both within yourself and in the collective narrative. Systems may indeed wobble; old beliefs may also crumble. Loved ones and communities will learn to navigate their own awakenings and releases. You are not here to rescue them—only to hold your clarity and grounded presence as a beacon.

Your body may ask for more rest or ignite with renewed passion. Memories from other lifetimes, ancestral wounds, or buried emotions may surface—welcome them as part of your sacred healing. Let your nervous system settle into the new frequency. This is not just energy shifting—it is your evolutionary emergence, your soul expanding in real time.

Above all—stay authentic. This is no time for spiritual bypass or illusion. Speak your truth. Feel deeply. Walk your path with integrity. Every boundary you hold, every pattern you break, every intention you set—it matters.

You are not waiting for a shift. You are the shift.

And this shift won’t come with fireworks or fanfare. It will feel like a deep remembrance—the reclaiming of your divine essence, your original blueprint. From this place, clarity emerges, and the dance of creation begins anew—not in chaos, but in sacred harmony.

So if things fall away, let them. If you feel called to step back, do so without guilt. If you awaken with unshakable knowing, trust it without hesitation. We are moving forward, not back. The veils are thin, the frequencies high, the alignments precise.

Stay present. Stay grounded. Stay sovereign.
The Earth has shifted timelines. And so have you.
Now, let that sacred shift transform you—into your highest and truest self.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

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Living Your Story, Leading With Soul

Hello wondrous Soul,

I believe we’re living in a time when deeper meaning, authentic leadership, and soul-aligned living are not just desired—they’re essential. 

What follows are responses to some of the most frequently asked questions about my work, offering insights into how Past and Future Life Integration, Archetype Activation, and Soul Storytelling can create lasting change from the inside out.

How does integrating Past Life and Future Life perspectives support someone’s life purpose in the present moment?

When we access past life memories, we uncover karmic imprints and repetitive patterns that often limit our current growth. Conversely, connecting with our Future Self reveals untapped potential and purpose-driven clarity. 

Integrating these timelines empowers you to dissolve outdated identities and align with your soul’s true direction. This process is for anyone ready to move beyond confusion or stagnation and live in conscious coherence with their destiny.

How does Archetype Activation create meaningful change in someone’s life and leadership?

Archetypes are universal patterns of power and purpose. When consciously activated, they become allies that help us embody our higher qualities and transform our limitations. 

This process enables you to discover your authentic path, align with your values, and lead with greater presence. It’s especially effective for women stepping into visionary leadership or creative entrepreneurship, where self-awareness and soulful clarity are key.

How do your books and teachings help people reframe their story and reclaim their voice?

My writing offers tools and language for self-inquiry, narrative transformation, and archetypal understanding. Through storytelling, people begin to see themselves not as victims of their past, but as authors of their becoming. 

When we reshape our inner dialogue and reclaim our voice, we naturally elevate our self-worth and our ability to serve others. This is for those who know they’re here to make a difference—but need a map to remember who they truly are.

How does Storytelling serve as a transformational tool in personal development?

Storytelling isn’t just a way to share—it’s a sacred act of shaping meaning. When used intentionally, it reveals subconscious beliefs and archetypal patterns that either restrict or empower us. 

By reframing our stories through the lens of growth, choice, and soul alignment, we activate healing and self-leadership. This practice is for seekers, creatives, and supportive guides who want to live—and lead—from their inner truth.

How do you guide people to embody the Living Attributes of their soul, rather than just intellectualise them?

Through the Living Attributes Typology, I help individuals move from knowledge to embodiment by mapping their values, archetypes, and purpose codes. It’s not enough to understand who you are; you must live it. 

By aligning thoughts, words, and actions with your soul attributes, you create congruence and magnetism. This work supports those who are ready to make a spiritual, professional, or creative leap, grounded in their authentic essence.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth