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What Is Meant for You Will Not Pass You By

A reflection through the Sacred Mirroring Spiral

There is a valuable knowing throughout ancient teachings, and also present at the heart of the Living Attributes Codex: what is meant for you will not pass you by. Not because life is fixed or destiny is rigid, but because life is responsive. It listens, it mirrors and spirals back to us what we are ready to receive.

Within the Sacred Mirroring Spiral, this statement becomes less of a comforting phrase and more a universal lore. The Spiral carries memory; an ancestral, archetypal, soul-deep reminder that life does not move in straight lines or deadlines.

It moves in rhythms of readiness. What we call “delay” is often gestation. What we call “loss” is frequently redirection. What we call “missing out” is usually a form of protection against arriving too early or too unprepared for what carries weight and responsibility.

The Sacred Mirroring Spiral reveals that life is always reflecting our inner state to us, not as punishment or reward, but as a story and a signal. As within, so without. When something truly belongs on your path, it cannot escape the gravity of your purpose. It may circle wide, approach slowly, wait until your nervous system can hold it, your heart can carry it, and your identity has expanded enough to sustain it. But it will return.

This is where the Spiral differs from linear striving. In linear time, we chase outcomes. In spiral time, we cultivate alignment. The Living Attributes Codex reminds us that attributes such as trust, discernment, patience, courage, devotion, and self-faith are not passive virtues, they are tuning instruments. They attune us to resonance, and resonance, according to the old lore, is what determines timing.

What is meant for you does not arrive through force? It comes through coherence.

When we act from comparison, urgency, or fear of being left behind, we step out of the Spiral and into distortion. We attempt to pull experiences toward us before they have ripened. The mirror then responds faithfully, not by delivering the thing itself, but by reflecting the tension, the strain, or the dissatisfaction that comes from premature grasping. The lore is gentle but precise: returning you to your centre.

The Spiral asks a different question than “When will it happen?” It asks, “Who am I being while I wait?”

Because your personal and spiritual development is not empty time, it is the unseen labour of your soul and psyche aligning. It is the refinement of your desire into clarity, and it is the softening of attachment into trust. And it’s remembering that nothing essential is lost on your Sacred Spiral, only your illusions of control.

What is meant for you will not pass you by does not mean that life hands us everything we want. It means life honours what we are in a truthful relationship with. If something slips away, it is often because it was aligned with an earlier version of you or with a story that no longer fits the architecture of your soul. The mirror does not remove without reason; it clears space for a more coherent connection.

The Seed Of The Soul

Within the Living Attributes Codex, this understanding is repeated like a sacred folklore passed from one inner elder to another, and the outer world rearranges itself in response to this inner integration. As you embody your living attributes, rather than merely understand them, your path stabilises. Fewer detours are required, fewer lessons need to be repeated, and the Spiral can advance your resonance through coherence.

Your trust, then, is not a blind faith, but rather an intimate relationship with the intelligence of life. There is a profound peace that comes when we stop racing the Spiral. When we no longer try to outrun our own maturation. When we allow the mirroring of the spiral to show us not what we lack, but what is forming, in that space, longing transforms into listening, and waiting becomes witnessing. And real arrival, when it comes, feels inevitable rather than surprising.

What is meant for you cannot miss you because it is not separate from you. It is encoded in the Seed of your Soul, it’s in your readiness, and in your willingness to meet life honestly. The Spiral does not forget because sacred lore always remembers.

And when the moment arrives, quietly, naturally, without fanfare, you will recognise it not by urgency, but by ease. Not by grasping, but by resonance, not by fear of loss, but by a deep, embodied knowing: This has arrived because I have arrived at myself.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

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Your purpose is not what you do!

Your purpose is not what you do; it is what awakens, calms, illuminates, or rearranges the inner world of another when you dare to live as your Radiant Self.

Purpose is a frequency, a living signature, a quiet transmission of your Light filled Attributes. It is the echo of your essence moving through the field, brushing against someone else’s story and reminding them of their own forgotten brilliance.

In the language of the Living Attributes Codex, purpose is not an action but an activation.


It is the way your presence may stir the Faith of the Awakening Portal…
a Loving Coherence of the Integration Portal… 

or the rare luminosity of the Emergence Portal where Divinity meets everyday life.

This is the Sacred Spiral in motion, your inner light travelling outward, touching someone else’s spiral, and sparking their next orbit of becoming.

Think of this: How many times has a single conversation, a single sentence, a single moment with someone shifted the direction of your inner world? Those small, profound pivots happen because their attributes and archetypes spoke directly to your own.

Not the words. Not the task, but the transmission. Your purpose lives in that same quiet alchemy.

It might be in your storytelling, or your leadership, or your compassion, or the way you hold space through your coherent presence.

But the form is merely the vessel, the real purpose is the resonance it awakens in others, a subtle remembering of their own seed of the soul.

And here is the grace: Purpose can never truly be misplaced. Even when the outer identity shifts, the inner circuitry remains. Your living attributes, those twelve luminous strands, continue to weave themselves through every conversation, every offering, every simple gesture of kindness or clarity.

So ask yourself with gentle honesty:

What happens to people when I do what I do?
Do they exhale?
Do they lift?
Do they feel seen, recognised, restored?
Do they step closer to their own inner authority, their own source of light?

When you find that answer, you see the golden thread of your purpose, not a destination, but a living field. A forward-moving spiral. A subtle blessing. A light that travels beyond words, beyond time, into the hearts of those you touch.

This is the true work, the way of the Seed of the Soul, the Sacred Spiral and your Divine Destiny, that luminous path your soul has already chosen.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

The Archetype of The Holy Family

When a man and a woman come together for the sacred purpose of creation, there must be a presence greater than themselves—the fifth element: LOVE. It is through this divine force that the miracle of life is activated. When their union is infused with LOVE, the soul of the newly born vessel intrinsically knows its name and its root.

The child’s innate qualities are organically awakened and will continue to unfold throughout their entire life. At the moment of conception, it is the Christing Light that begins the child’s journey, and it is this same Light that will guide and sustain them through every stage of their existence.

This profound act—the union of two families—creates an abundance of life force, and from this merging, a new family is born. The blood of generations past flows forward to bring life to the newborn child, forming a bridge between the old and the new. This life force, imbued with the golden light of Shekinah, becomes the thread that connects us all in the sacred lineage of creation.


Through this divine act, not only is a new child born, but so too are a new mother, a new father, aunts, uncles, grandmothers, and grandfathers. We are transformed by this process, becoming something greater than ourselves—creators of a new family.

I believe the cornerstones of a thriving family are Respect, Love, Joy, and Ritual.

  • RESPECT forms the foundation for all healthy relationships.
  • LOVE is the sweet elixir that sustains and nourishes the family.
  • JOY elevates the spirit, bringing harmony and connection.
  • RITUAL is how we acknowledge and honour the divine presence in all aspects of life.

Rituals and ceremonies hold a unique power to bring families together, offering a sacred pause from the routines of daily life. These acts of celebration honour the divine union at the heart of family and creation itself. Without the holy, ceremonies can feel hollow, leaving participants with a sense of incompleteness. Our authentic human nature is rooted in our connection to the myths and truths of creation. To celebrate anything without first honouring the gift of creation is to miss the essence of what gives life meaning.

As this remarkable year draws to a close, I invite you to reflect on these thoughts. Together, let us remember: we are all the Creator’s divine creation, bound by a shared lineage of Respect, Love, Joy and Ritual. Together, we are the Creator’s beloved family.

Heart to Heart, and Blessings to you this Christmas
Elizabeth

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Trusting and Jealousy: The Light and Shadow Dynamics

Jealousy as a Compass: Working with a Shadow Attribute within the Living Attributes Codex

In the Living Attributes Codex, every light attribute carries a shadow, a counterpart that emerges when the light is challenged, unacknowledged, or misaligned. Trusting, for example, is a heart-centred attribute: open, generous, and confident in connection. Its shadow, jealousy, often arises when desire, attachment, or fear of loss enters the field.

Far from being a flaw, jealousy is a compass. It signals what truly matters to the heart, highlighting desires and values that may be unacknowledged or underdeveloped. The key is not suppression, but conscious engagement: noticing the shadow, understanding its message, and intentionally redirecting its energy into the aligned light attribute.

This practice, which I call “Correct and Transform”, provides a clear roadmap for working with the Codex. By observing jealousy without judgment, identifying the underlying desire, and transforming the energy back into trust, we turn a potentially destructive emotion into a powerful tool for self-referencing awareness and growth.

In this way, jealousy becomes a propeller on a person’s Sacred Spiral of Consciousness rather than a trap, guiding us toward deeper trust, authentic connection, and mastery over our own emotional landscape. This dynamic perfectly illustrates how the Living Attributes Codex can be applied in daily life: by honouring both light and shadow, we cultivate wholeness rather than suppressing what is present.

Light Attribute – Trusting

  • Nature: openness, generosity, confidence in connection, and ease in vulnerability.
  • Expression: belief in the integrity of relationships, self, and possibility; allowing flow without constant guarding.
  • Significance: trusting is the heart’s capacity to welcome life and others without fear, embracing what is real and shared.

Shadow Attribute – Jealousy

  • Nature: emotional charge triggered when trust feels fragile, or desires go unacknowledged.
  • Expression: ill feelings, comparison, fear of loss, or attachment.
  • Signal: jealousy is a compass pointing to your heartfelt desires; it illuminates what matters deeply to you. It is not “bad”; it is information about your unmet or threatened value.

Correct and Transform: Engaging the Shadow

1. Correct – Observe and Identify

  • Pause when jealousy arises: Recognise it without judgment.
  • Ask: What desire or attachment is this pointing to?
  • Distinction: “This is jealousy, an aspect of my shadow, signalling to me what my heart values.”

2. Reflect – Understand the Signal

  • Explore the deeper meaning: Why does this matter? Which part of my trust feels vulnerable?
  • See jealousy as a Sign, not a threat. It reveals your authentic desires.

3. Transform – Shift your Energy into Trust

  • Affirm what you can genuinely influence or cultivate.
  • Release imagined threats or comparisons beyond your control.
  • Reconnect with trusting energy: openness, generosity, and confidence.

4. Act – Align Behaviour with Insight

  • Express desires authentically.
  • Nurture connections or pursue constructive action.
  • Let jealousy be a self-referencing guide in your decisions without dominating them.

5. Integrate – Living Attributes Codex Self-Referencing Spiral

  • Journal Your Patterns: what triggers jealousy, what desires it reveals, and how you successfully transformed it.
  • Foster growth to strengthen trust, ensuring jealousy remains conscious, constructive, and transformative until it no longer arises.

Key Principle:
Jealousy is the shadow of trusting. It signals what the heart truly wants. Through the Correct and Transform process, jealousy becomes a compass guiding your trust, clarifying your desires, and cultivating authentic connection.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

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Don’t Invest in Someone Who Doesn’t Invest in You

As I move through the changing landscapes of my life, I keep returning to a quiet, steady truth: every relationship I hold—family, friendship, partnership, creative collaboration, or community—shapes the texture of my inner world. Each bond carries its own gravity, its own influence, its own invitation to grow.

Over the years, I’ve learned that the wisdom in don’t invest in someone who doesn’t invest in you is not sharp or defensive. It is tender. It is clarifying. It is the kind of truth that arrives when I finally listen to what my own energy has been trying to tell me.

I’ve known relationships where I was the one who kept the flame alive—where the conversations moved because I pushed them forward, where the care flowed mostly in one direction, where my presence was offered but not truly met. These moments didn’t make me naïve; they revealed how deeply I wanted connection to flourish.

But I’ve also learned that reciprocity is the heartbeat of healthy relationships. Every connection breathes through mutual presence, shared responsibility, and a willingness to meet each other with honesty. When that balance fades, I feel it. Something in me strains to compensate, and I start shrinking to maintain what no longer has the structure to stand.

Choosing not to invest in places that do not nourish me is not an act of rejection. It is an act of restoration. It is me returning to the centre of my own field, gathering back the energy I scattered in hope, and honouring the truth that my care is a precious resource—not something to be spent in silence.

And when I honour that truth, my world shifts. Space opens. My breath deepens. I find myself drawn into relationships—of every kind—that meet me with readiness and respect. People appear who show up without prompting, who hold their part of the bridge, who recognise that connection is something we build together.

This clarity doesn’t close my heart; it refines it. It guides me to place my energy where it can echo and expand. It reminds me that I am at my best when I’m in relationships that understand the value of mutual investment.

Because when the exchange becomes balanced and alive, every connection—family, friendship, love, or creative partnership—becomes a vessel for evolution.

And in that mutual field, we rise.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth

The 12 Karmic Laws Interpreted

Below is a clear, explanation of the commonly referenced 12 “Laws of Karma.” These aren’t literal laws but a modern synthesis drawn from Buddhist, Hindu, yogic, and transformational frameworks.

They function as psychological and behavioural principles that influence the trajectory of a person’s life.

1. Cause and Effect → The brain’s quiet ledger
It’s remarkable how the mind keeps score. Every action, every intention plants a seed in the nervous system. Over time, those seeds grow into patterns—reinforced, repeated, and eventually embodied. We live inside the consequences we’ve rehearsed.

2. Creation → The sacred responsibility of agency
Life doesn’t merely unfold; we participate in its formation. Neuroscience calls it a sense of personal agency, but it feels more like the quiet knowing that we are co-authors. What we choose, repeatedly and consciously, shapes the path under our feet.

3. Humility → Meeting oneself without distortion
Humility isn’t smallness; it’s clarity. When we’re willing to see the unvarnished truth of our behaviours and motives, the fog of bias begins to lift. In that honesty, transformation finds its opening.

4. Growth → The brain’s willingness to rewrite itself
Neuroplasticity is simply the scientific name for an ancient truth: we are not fixed. With practice and intention, the brain rewires, habits shift, identity softens into something more expansive. Growth begins inside long before the world reflects it back.

5. Responsibility → The art of choosing our response
Life brings its storms, but our emotional landscape is shaped by how we interpret and respond to them. The research calls it “cognitive regulation,” but in lived experience, it feels like reclaiming our sovereignty—moment by moment.

6. Connection → The invisible threads that bind everything
We exist inside a network of influences—family, memory, environment, belief. Nothing is isolated. Each choice we make sends ripples outward, touching far more than we can see.

7. Focus → The compass of attention
Where the mind rests, life follows. Attention is limited, sacred, and powerful. When we scatter it, we dilute our becoming. When we devote it, we enter alignment with who we are trying to become.

8. Giving and Hospitality → Embodied values
Generosity is not an idea; it is a nervous system action. When we offer support, compassion, or presence, the brain responds with warmth, trust, and connection. Our values only become real when we live them.

9. Here and Now → The grounding that frees us
The past can echo, and the future can beckon, but clarity happens here. Mindfulness pulls us back into the immediacy of lived experience, where decisions become clearer and the heart steadier.

10. Change → The soul’s pattern-breaking
Life repeats its lessons until we meet them fully. Neuroscience describes this as revising or reshaping our mental frameworks —the rewiring of deep patterns. In lived experience, it feels like awakening to a doorway that we’ve been walking past for years.

11. Patience and Reward → The long arc of devotion
Transformation asks for steadiness. The ability to wait, to nurture a vision without demanding immediacy, strengthens the brain’s reward pathways and anchors long-term change. Some of the most meaningful outcomes arrive slowly, but unmistakably.

12. Significance and Inspiration → The quiet legacy of every act
Every gesture, no matter how small, has an influence on the world. Purpose activates deep layers of meaning within the mind. When we act from that place, we not only shape our own path—we inspire others to step more fully into theirs.

Heart to Heart, Elizabeth