When a man and a woman come together for the sacred purpose of creation, there must be a presence greater than themselves—the fifth element: LOVE. It is through this divine force that the miracle of life is activated. When their union is infused with LOVE, the soul of the newly born vessel intrinsically knows its name and its root.
The child’s innate qualities are organically awakened and will continue to unfold throughout their entire life. At the moment of conception, it is the Christing Light that begins the child’s journey, and it is this same Light that will guide and sustain them through every stage of their existence.
This profound act—the union of two families—creates an abundance of life force, and from this merging, a new family is born. The blood of generations past flows forward to bring life to the newborn child, forming a bridge between the old and the new. This life force, imbued with the golden light of Shekinah, becomes the thread that connects us all in the sacred lineage of creation.
Through this divine act, not only is a new child born, but so too are a new mother, a new father, aunts, uncles, grandmothers, and grandfathers. We are transformed by this process, becoming something greater than ourselves—creators of a new family.
I believe the cornerstones of a thriving family are Respect, Love, Joy, and Ritual.
RESPECT forms the foundation for all healthy relationships.
LOVE is the sweet elixir that sustains and nourishes the family.
JOY elevates the spirit, bringing harmony and connection.
RITUAL is how we acknowledge and honour the divine presence in all aspects of life.
Rituals and ceremonies hold a unique power to bring families together, offering a sacred pause from the routines of daily life. These acts of celebration honour the divine union at the heart of family and creation itself. Without the holy, ceremonies can feel hollow, leaving participants with a sense of incompleteness. Our authentic human nature is rooted in our connection to the myths and truths of creation. To celebrate anything without first honouring the gift of creation is to miss the essence of what gives life meaning.
As this remarkable year draws to a close, I invite you to reflect on these thoughts. Together, let us remember: we are all the Creator’s divine creation, bound by a shared lineage of Respect, Love, Joy and Ritual. Together, we are the Creator’s beloved family.
Heart to Heart, and Blessings to you this Christmas Elizabeth
We are so consumed with what is going on at present that I thought it fitting to connect with our superpower as human beings, which is our CREATIVITY and our ability to come up with new ideas…
Here are some insights from an article written by – Dr. Marla Gottschalk an Industrial/Organizational Psychologist.
Like most people, I find it intrinsically satisfying to share ideas that can improve how we carry out our vocation and life. But, while this exchange of ideas is a fundamental component of knowledge and life — bringing those ideas to life can prove challenging. Many of us have the opportunity to share ideas; whether in team meetings, online conferences or brainstorming sessions. But, what really happens to all of those promising ideas once collected?
While we place great emphasis on innovation in today’s world — the fact remains that many worthy ideas will never see the light of day. I would venture to say that many organizations have a back-log of great ideas, untouched and undeveloped. Ultimately, we do a good job of generating ideas. But utilizing them effectively… now that can be quite a different story.
Forward progress is just as much about managing the ideas we generate, than any other element in the dynamic. Many worthy ideas fail to become reality, because we fail to utilize a process robust enough to properly select and implement them effectively. In many cases, we are hindered as to how to wade through that mountain of collected ideas. One key problem is the tendency to view idea management as a spontaneously occurring event — when in fact; we need to employ a winning process to ensure success. A few topics to consider:
• Build Trust.
In the cultural scheme, if there isn’t an adequate level of trust and co-operation within a team, it is nearly impossible to evaluate and implement ideas effectively. To begin evaluating ideas, the stage has to be set for an open and honest discussion. If we are wary of bucking authority and voicing all sides of the story, we can land in trouble. Pixar calls this cultural element the “Brain-trust” which is the notion of offering an “unvarnished” opinion to move idea development along effectively.
• Complete An Investigation.
Carefully consider worthy ideas that never reached their full potential — what caused this to happen? Was the idea not properly communicated? Inadequately defined roles in the field? Lack of data concerning value? Use this information strategically, going forward.
• Connect Ideas With Mission & Vision.
An idea floating in the stratosphere can have little meaning. So, offer context, to properly identify the ideas potential. Attempt to connect an idea with desired end-result that aligns with your mission and vision. How can the idea provide a route to a valued goal?
• Narrow The Field.
At some point we have to focus on the ideas that are worthy enough to devote valuable time and resources. For that to occur, you must develop selection criteria relevant to your team and the situation at hand. (For example, ideas that meet an urgent need or those with the greatest potential to impact.) Without these criteria, you cannot move forward. • Don’t look for a single “winner”. The trouble we often encounter with developing ideas is we tend to narrow the focus quite quickly to one path — when it’s likely there is more than one great idea circulating. One idea really does not have to “win”? You can often combine ideas, to enhance product development or service improvement.
• Capture Potential Value.
To drive your idea home, take the time to draft an “action case” which adds dimension and clearly outlines future benefits. This can serve as an integral step in the evaluation process.
• Find An Owner.
Yes, just like people, ideas need guidance and care to develop fully. So identify an owner — and make this choice by aligning with interests and passion. Offer the role to a team member who believes in the idea, and can envision its potential.
• Give Things Time.
Great ideas have the potential to turn the normal state of affairs “upside down” and trigger a powerful emotional response. As discussed here, ideas need to be fully digested before we can act on them effectively. Take this into consideration when delivering ideas and planning their implementation phase. A little patience may be the magic ingredient. What strategies are you utilizing to manage ideas, which in turn will bring them alive to serve our world?
Is the Vibration of LOVE Simply the Coherence of Creation?
Often, we limit our understanding of “Love” to romantic relationships. But what if Love is something far greater—an all-pervasive, living energy that surrounds our planet and fuels the very act of creation? We know that heart-to-heart connections generate unity, but Love, in its highest form, is a co-creative force—far beyond the unconscious act of reproduction.
What if every connection we make is, in essence, a loving relationship? The depth of Love we invest in our vocations, our purpose, and our daily experiences fuels not only our creativity but the very essence of our existence.
We all have access to this boundless, powerful energy, yet we often fear it. The frequency of Love touches every aspect of life—our families, friendships, work, passions, environment, and even our relationship with the planet itself. We continually express what we love and what we resist. But what if Love is more than an emotion—what if it is the very substance that sustains the universe?
Could it be that what we call GOD is simply the force of Love itself? And that we are naturally wired to create coherence—to generate more Love, more Light, more of the divine essence that I call The Christos Sophia?
Throughout life, we oscillate between two fundamental energies: Love, which equates to LIFE and LIGHT, and Fear, which can manifests as DEATH and DARKNESS. But is it truly Love that we fear? Or is it our own resistance to Life and Light? For some, it seems easier to remain disconnected from Love, Light, and the Divine, rather than surrender to a frequency so powerful that it might actually be sustaining the entire cosmos.
For me, my guiding mantra is this: “I Love The Christos Sophia First.”
When I say these words, something profound happens:
First, I feel an instant connection to a source that loves me unconditionally.
Then, I feel a deep acceptance of myself and greater compassion for others.
Next, I sense a powerful assurance that all things good flow from this connection.
Finally, I intuitively know that this feeling generates more Love, more Light, more divine presence.
Perhaps the alchemy of turning lead into gold is simply a metaphor for perfecting Love—both within and without. It is the divination of matter and spirit, the merging of the human with the divine.
This understanding is not foreign to artists, visionaries, and creators. When we immerse ourselves in the process of bringing something new into existence, we form a sacred bond with it—we Love it into being. And through that Love, we seek perfection, wholeness, and expression.
This “becoming one with” is the essence of true alchemy. It is the sacred formula of transformation, requiring surrender—both of the Self and to Love itself. A true alchemist must undergo sacrifice, purification, and release of the ego-self, for at the heart of Great Work lies a singular truth:
Artist: Federico Infante
The ART of ALCHEMY is LOVE
It is the science of the Soul, the bridge between humanity and divinity, the understanding of the nature of the cosmos, the earth, and the human spirit.
For millennia, the sages, saints, and shamans have sought to harness this power—giving it names, rituals, and symbols. But in essence, they were all discovering the same truth: Love is the greatest force of all.
And this power is not beyond us—it is within us. We are hardwired to generate this miraculous force. Perhaps the ancients were right when they taught: “We must Love and acknowledge our Source first, above all else.”
It makes perfect sense. If we were created by a force fueled by Love, of course, we would Love that Source first.
As we navigate these transformative times—times that may feel disruptive or even inconvenient—we are being called to pause, reassess, and reflect on what truly matters in our lives. This very process of deep contemplation can activate what is known as Spiritual Intelligence.
But what exactly does that mean?
Defining Spiritual Intelligence
First, let’s clarify what Spiritual Intelligence is not. It is not merely about being religious or adhering to a specific doctrine. Rather, it is the ability to align our actions and communication with our highest truth. It is an inner knowing that transcends belief systems and reveals itself in how we show up in the world. Our spiritual nature is made evident through the state of our mind, our choices, and most importantly, our inner peace—something that cannot be dictated by external structures but must emerge from a deeper connection within.
The Practice of Spiritual Intelligence
Like any discipline that yields tangible results, Spiritual Intelligence requires dedication. It is not something we simply acknowledge and then file away under “I’ll get to that later.” Without consistent attention, it fades into the background, lost in the endless queue of postponed priorities.
But here’s the real question: Why do we believe we don’t have time to be spiritual? Especially when everything we hold most dear—love, creativity, connection, beauty—is inherently spiritual. When we are moved by a breathtaking piece of music, a powerful work of art, an inspiring book, or a film that touches our soul, these are not just passing emotions; they are profound reminders of our intimate connection to something greater. These moments are evidence of our spiritual intelligence at work.
The Role of an Obedient Heart
At its core, I believe Spiritual Intelligence arises from having an obedient heart—one that listens and responds to the call of the higher self. This is not obedience in the sense of blind submission but rather a willingness to trust, surrender, and allow our higher heart to guide us. And like any worthwhile practice, it requires commitment. The more we align with our spiritual nature, the more our decision-making process shifts. We stop trying to control every outcome and instead embrace the exhilarating dance of imagination, intention, and grace.
Transforming Through Spiritual Intelligence
As we begin to experience true transformation—moving beyond the limitations of past realities—we naturally develop greater trust in our spiritual intelligence. We shift our focus from fear-based reactions to faith-driven responses, cultivating a deep and unwavering connection to the divine force within us.
Expanding Beyond Traditional Views
Many assume that spirituality is confined to places of worship, meditation, or acts of charity. But true Spiritual Intelligence is about forging an intimate relationship with oneself and, in turn, deepening our relationship with the Divine—however we define it. The path will look different for each individual, but like any meaningful relationship, it requires dedication, presence, and a heart open to guidance.
“Obedience of the heart always comes at an extraordinary price. When one is able to surrender their life to a greater and more auspicious power, they become both the receiver and the embodiment of the Creator’s divine intention. There is no greater gift in life than this.”
We are living in a world where the voices of self-proclaimed spiritual influencers often drown out the essence of true guidance, stepping into your role as a spiritual mentor or healer can feel overwhelming.
The pull of fame, fortune, and superficiality sometimes overshadows the deeper purpose of this sacred path. Yet, in the midst of the noise, your unique calling to serve as a beacon of light has never been more essential. With over three decades of experience in transformation and mentorship, I thought it wise to share some of my own insights.
Navigating the Illusion of the Self
One of the greatest challenges in this digital age is the temptation to centre our work around image and persona. Social media, while connecting us, has also created a void within many—one that seeks validation, recognition, and belonging. The more we focus on curating a digital version of ourselves, the further we risk straying from our source of spiritual truth and the people we are meant to guide.
Let Authenticity Be Your North Star
Among the endless posts and reels competing for attention, authenticity remains your greatest guide. True spiritual mentorship isn’t about outshining others or building a following—it’s about radiating genuine purpose and helping others connect with their inner light. The real power of a mentor lies in their ability to guide, not perform.
The Wisdom Found in Real Experience
Spiritual leadership is not a quick journey to success but a path shaped by time, growth, and resilience. Your authenticity deepens with every lived experience, challenge, and triumph. It’s this depth that will resonate with those you serve. Words and actions grounded in truth and sincerity have the power to heal and inspire.
Connection Is the Key
In a world increasingly divided by politics, social tensions, and the screen-based realities of virtual life, your role as a spiritual mentor is to foster real connection. It’s about nurturing relationships, creating safe spaces for shared growth, and building a community rooted in mutual discovery and transformation.
Serving, Not Selling
Unlike the spectacle of “influencer spirituality,” your role is not to market quick-fix solutions or spiritual shortcuts. You are here to offer something deeper: the authentic journey of spiritual growth. It’s a path that challenges, transforms, and ultimately uplifts those who are willing to walk it.
As you step forward into your calling, remember that your commitment to authenticity and service will shine as a beacon of hope. Your light will guide others toward genuine spiritual awakening in a world often consumed by the superficial.
Trust in the power of your purpose, draw upon the wisdom you’ve cultivated, and let your journey stand as a testament to the beauty and truth of authentic spirituality.
Elizabeth Ellames 