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We have entered a new frontier of awareness, which requires women to be New Style Leaders. ‪

If you’re one of these New Style Leaders, chances are you’ve outgrown some areas of your life. The way you operate your career, lifestyle, relationships may now feel foreign to you, so it’s an understatement to say you probably feel a little isolated.

Especially as a New Style Leader, you could be asking yourself questions like…

Why am I here? 

How can I make more of a difference? 

Who else do I know that is on a higher purpose?

Be assured, if you’re traveling on the road of leadership you are right where you need to be, and finding your “tribe” is a fundamental part of your journey. Here are some tips on consciously calling in your Authentic Leadership Powers that will support you on your journey.

Keys To Staying True To Your Leadership.

Being The Real Deal – Simply put ‘You need to be the Real Deal’… Before you can fully step into your leadership you must know who you are and be living a life in alignment with that truth. You will attract like-minds – but they may be people who are simply matching what you are projecting out to the world. So if that’s an innocent mask of people pleasing, control or enabling, you’re connections and results are likely to be of a similar nature.

Create Distinctions – Understand that the roles people have played in your life have given you a greater understanding and experience of life. Make distinctions around your leadership from a place of development, empowerment and personal responsibility. Often blame justifies our current “Busy” or “Disruptive” lifestyle and can be a wonderful excuse for not creating the right direction and team.

Responsibility – Its important to take full responsibility for your life and the part you played in past relationships and experiences, this creates a deeper awareness around authentic connection – real deal teams don’t put up with B.S – they’ll hold you accountable to being the best leader you can be, call you on your stuff and inspire you to lead with integrity, confidence, passion and clarity.

Identify And Clarify – Make a conscious decision about who you want to be as a leader and where that’s heading, what you want and don’t want for the future – then create the lifestyle and people who can support that – many times you know what you don’t want because you’ve experienced it. So change that by only focusing on what works well.

Review Your Relationships – Recognise old relationships that no longer serve you – this doesn’t mean they are ‘bad’ or what they are choosing to do with their life is wrong. It just means you need to be supported in your leadership. This takes a commitment to yourself and your vision, which fosters the best version of you. And you need to create personal boundaries around how you choose to be influenced.

Edify And Unify Your Connections – Identify the kindred spirits already in your life that support your leadership and consciously edify and unify these friendships, because they are part of your tribe and extremely valuable.

End Relationships That Hinder – Cut energetic ties that bind you to the past and to old ideas about who you think you are, and who others think you are. Allow yourself to be a leader, then confidently create and sustain relationships that nourish and support your vision.

Add Value And Shine – Correct and transform any personal behavior that lowers your vibration and observe how you attract people who may be mirroring negative beliefs around you. Give yourself permission to shine. This may require gently re-educating some people about who you are as a new style leader.

Raise Your Resonance – Call in your TribeTalkers© by becoming a vibrational match for who and what you want to attract as a leader. If you want creative people who respect you and share an aligned vision, ask yourself:

Am I expressing my creativity?

Do I respect my ability to lead?

Am I clearly living my leadership?

In Summary – Recognize Your Leadership And Your Tribe

Understand how to recognise your TribeTalkers when you connect with them. Be Brave, Be Real, Be Present and notice if people feel energetically appropriate, notice if you’re energising them and take action to follow up those connections.

Leaders need people who are on their team… Yes?

You need people who are on your team!

  • You need to understand your role as a team player.
  • Find out who’s available to share in your story.
  • Create a team who inspire you to be a better person.
  • Promote your new style of leadership to humanity.

Connect with people who make you feel appreciated, valued, and deeply understood…

Take the pledge to be a New Style Leader, welcome these concepts into your life and your community will be waiting on the other side.

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Elizabeth Ellames

The Gift Of Celestial Slumber

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One of the amazing gifts of Living Attributes Typology is working closely with the Light of the Archetypal Codes and the Angel Rays. They do indeed teach us the gift of bestowal. The word bestowal doesn’t even enter our vocabulary anymore, so no wonder we don’t fully understand what it means.

Bestowal means to honor or gift without any compensation this is what Higher Purpose Archetypes and Angels do, and what they teach us to do. They are fully present to their role in the process of Creation and their only motivation is to serve in that divine process. As humans, we are also part of that divine plan, our service, and presence also aid in the Divines Presence  miraculous masterpiece of creation.

This brings me to the topic of Celestial Slumber – I often mention to women in our community that the extreme tiredness they may be experiencing over the past few weeks and may feel after Our Living Goddess Circle is due to the amount of light they are receiving. 

When one experiences this level of tiredness for seemingly no apparent reason, this is the surrounding Light that has come upon you (angels) sometimes called the reforming Light, there is a process of transformation in progress. The best thing you can do is rest and I mean literally stop and take a Kindy Nap, more gracefully put a Celestial Slumber. Think of it like this, the radiance of your Living Goddess is emerging rapidly like a new-born child and every part of your growth is vital in your full development. If you need to take a rest please take one, it is your divine responsibility to you and your world around you to do so.

Our Light is our greatest Gift and we must take care of it.

Heart to Heart Elizabeth 

Love Your Past Your Present and Your Future

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Why I use the concepts of icons and archetypes?

Firstly what are Archetypes – they are a universal and symbolic representation that teaches us about life and ourselves. Archetypes are the architects of story and life. There are literally hundreds of archetypes that have been our teachers through the medium of story telling for centuries. They live in the realm of fairy tales, mythology, theatre and now film. So through the process of an individual telling their personal story they are able to recognise their personal archetypes.

While an Icon – An icon is often an individual who has lived or is living out a very public archetypical journey, they are recognizable by their fame or celebrity and often have become immortalized by their charismatic nature. The public usually become somewhat fascinated with their lives or beauty simply because they are to some degree playing out the roles of demigods, teaching us about light and shadow attributes from a far, but not so far.

My discovery of why we do this kind of seeking and obtaining;

  • Perhaps we are instinctively attempting to pull away from our parents. And in doing so we often connect strongly to a particular public figure, who’s either in music, film, fashion, sport, television or literature. We may do it in a creative and somewhat expressive manner, like identifying with their music, their dress and their culture.
  • Perhaps it is simply for the purpose of developing a new identity outside ones current family unit.
  • Perhaps we do it because some where deep within our nature we know there is something about our chosen iconic figure that is just like us.
  • Perhaps what we are really doing is looking for an alterative tribe, a new leader, a mentor, a role model who has similar values to our own and who isn’t going to tell us to do our homework or clean our room.

At this point I would like to add who my iconic influence was as a teenager… DAVID BOWIE!!… and also because it’s a year since he left our world, it still makes my heart weep to know this amazing artist has left us, along with others such as Prince, Carrie Fisher and Alan Rickman and thats only to name a few.

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Simply put we are intuitively looking for someone else to look up to, other than Mum and Dad.

For me BOWIE was perfect, he was a risk taker, a change agent, a true creative creature, a fashion icon and an absolute artist at heart… My spirit recognized him, because after all I also longed for all those things!!! So much so that I cut and coloured my hair like his, did my make up like his and even created costumes for others to wear similar to his, which were all influenced by his creative, flamboyant, androgynous, but very stylish appearance and progressive music.

Amazing how life shows up for us… I found a quote by Bowie just recently and of course it is very similar to what I now believe as an adult.

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  • I’m just an individual who doesn’t feel that I need to have somebody qualify my work in any particular way. I’m working for me.

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  • Who am I? I am all that is, all that was and all that is yet to come… And my responsiblity to you is to be me.

For some of us we need to connect to something or someone outside our family to feel like we belong, I know that’s how it was for me. I had faced many challenges as a child all connected to abuse, so I am indeed extremely grateful for the creative influence that David Bowie provided, he became my Angel Prince from a far away Star Kingdom, who gave me my precious and most beloved gifts of CREATIVITY and HOPE.

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I now known how important it is to be authentic when sharing your gifts, reason being, you never know who may be watching and truly counting on catching a little of your spectacular light that could grow into something greater within themselves some day.

Bravo Bowie, for it was you, who saved me from the shackles of convention and compromise.

Here are a few examples of other famous icons – Ghandi, Joan of Arc, Ned Kelly, Elvis Presley, Michael Jackson, Marilyn Monroe or Princess Diana. All these iconic figures have been major influences for many people, some even influenced nations.

Can you recall any of your most loved or admired ICONIC figures of present day, resent history or even ancient history?

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Shadow Side Of The Female Archetype

The Shadow Side Of The Archetypes In The Emotional Ream

The Shadow Side Of The Maiden uses her eternal adolescence to control her world around her… She eventually resembles the sulking or perhaps defiant teenager, making herself co- dependent on others to get what she wants… Which she then hides behind in order to not commit to the relaxed and flexible nature of her leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is…

Autonomy. Meaning – (the quality of being autonomous; independent.)

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The Shadow Side Of The Teacher uses her quick to the answer approach to control her world around her… She eventually becomes judgmental and impatient with another’s inability to express themselves, this makes her devalue others, which she then hides behind, in order to not commit to the expressive and compassionate nature of her own leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is…

Cultivation. Meaning – (the improvement or development of something.)

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The Shadow Side Of The Visionary uses her reclusive melancholy nature to control her world around her…. She often feels wounded and misunderstood by others making her withdraw and then deeply depressed, which she then hides behind, in order to not commit to the purity and wisdom of her nature and leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is…

Prophetic. Meaning – (predicting and for-seeing the future.)

 

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I AM Assurance

Today I move from DOUBT to ASSURANCE and merge with my LIVING GODDESS…

I see ASSURANCE, I feel ASSURANCE, I am ASSURANCE 

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The Living Attributes Typology© guides you toward the true and powerful nature of Your Living Goddess… is it tough?

Yes it can be… sometimes it’s a little and sometimes a lot!
We often have to shift outmoded patterns (pain) from our mind and our body at these times of rapid revelation. But it’s in our ability to stay fully present to our own evolutionary shifts that aids our own empowerment and in turn contributes to the collective consciousness of women. 

I know veiling or denial of any part of my true nature; my own archetypes, has not been healthy or effective. And this is because I require, as my birthright, to own all of me. I need to own my Light as well as my Shadow. I am Benevolent and Destructive (Queen), I am Blissful and Unworthy (Divine Child), I am Prophetic and Misunderstood (Visionary) and I am Restoration and Exclusion (Alchemist). For me the compilation of these Light and Shadow qualities make up my true nature.

As conscious women, when we are able to stay present to our call, we are actually aiding in the correcting and transforming of the Feminine Shadow that has been entangling the threads of our social fabric for centuries.
Together we can weave a new, stronger, vibrant and respectful social fabric, where we are all equal and acknowledged for our contributions.
The Living Attributes Typology is a tool that helps women re-create a new social fabric that supports women as they grow in their desire to SUCCEED. 

But first we have to acknowledge the nature of the shadow that dwells within each of us.

Here are three archetypes in the physical realm – they each have a shadow side and an authentic true quest.

The Shadow Queen uses her bossy, sometimes ruthless behavior to get want she wants… She may become destructive to gain power, which she then hides behind, in order to not commit to the responsible and strengthening nature of her leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is… Benevolent. Meaning – (generosity of spirit)                                                                                   00016D_3

The Shadow Hero fixes her opinions of others to maintain her position and status… She may become egotistical, which she then hides behind, in order to not commit to the passionate and transforming nature of her leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is… Altruistic. Meaning – (unselfish concern for the welfare of others; selflessness.)                                                                        0002ld

The Shadow Healer applies her compulsion for rescuing others to control her world around her… This can turn her into the victim, in turn making her the helpless one, which she then hides behind, in order to not commit to the devoted and radiant nature of her leadership that demonstrates her authentic quest, which is… Resurrection. (The state of one who has returned to life.) 

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We often find it hard to own all sides to our nature; Light and Shadow, but it is through the accepting of our shadow in conjunction with our light that we get to see how it is the driving force toward our True Quest.

It’s all there for a reason… and when we begin to understand our human evolution, when we can face our fears, our judgments and our overwhelm, we start to see and develop an inner knowing, which repeatedly becomes our compass that directs us back home every time.